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(This is one of a series of posts about my estranged son, Daniel.)
I opened the front door, looked down and almost fainted. There was my small son, clutching his throat, blood spurting out between his fingers. I screamed. His father came running and pried Daniel’s fingers open. It was his chin, not his throat after all. Blake swept him up and into the car while I stood there, immobilized. The small tricycle lay overturned on the sidewalk. The other children, including Daniel’s sister Julia stood beside their tricycles, most of them larger models. They had been racing like maniacs up and down the sidewalk and shouting in glee.
Daniel had had his first serious bike fall. It would not be his last. In the years to come, he would take many spills – on his first small two-wheeler, on his banana-seat bike, on his mountain bike, on his road racer, on his commuter. He would up-end over handle bars, somersault over car hoods, narrowly escape leg crushing in traffic, get doored, get run off the road on highways. He would bleed from road rash; his wounds would turn red, then blue, then yellow, but curiously he would never break a bone.
I didn’t know any of that then. I just knew that my husband who couldn’t stand the sight of blood, who fainted in movies that depicted blood loss had just leaped into the fray while I stood helplessly by.
After a few hours, they returned, Daniel sporting a series of brown stitches under his chin, which he rushed to show the other kids. He has that white scar still, just out of sight until he lifts his head.
(Strangely, it always turned out that when Julia was bleeding, I handled it. Daniel shut her in the oven of the toy stove – at her insistence – and I dealt with her bleeding hand, holding the compress in the emergency ward, etc. But whenever Daniel turned up bleeding or even reported a close call, I got weak in the knees.)
In summers in Guildwood Village, the kids would take off on their bicycles in early morning, riding off to the cliffside parks, ditching the bikes to climb the bluffs, coming home late for lunch, dusty and scraped, only to set out again. No questions asked. Well, none answered anyway.
When Daniel’s doctor recommended exercise to deal with his incipient asthma. we foolishly enrolled him in soccer. In full regulation gear, knee socks and all, he spent his time avoiding the action, hanging back, taking an ego hit until he decided that he was meant for racing. He began by racing on his feet and was soon doing training runs up the big hill and around our neighbourhood. It was later when he was in his twenties, living with me in my country village house that he moved on to bicycle racing. It’s a complicated sport because it involves a machine as well as physical conditioning. A bad tire or a dropped chain can finish off a skilled, fit rider. He started with road racing and moved on to mountain bike racing and then to cycle-cross. For many years, he was guaranteed a top spot in his category. Training consisted, probably still consists, of hundred mile group rides on the weekend. (Much hated by some country types.)
The scariest time for me was the year or so he worked as a bicycle courier. Speed was imperative and this interval found him at his road-warrior scariest. Eventually, he quit to save his life, but he carried that style over into his commute to his safer job. He tangled with a car on Bloor St. and ended up because of our no-fault insurance having to report it to my car insurance company. An agent called me to confirm details. He asked me if Daniel was married. I said no. Then I said, “Hang on. He is married.” The agent said,” What’s with you people? Your son said exactly the same thing.” For political reasons, Daniel had been married for five minutes to a girl he loved. Politics changed. They had moved on, neglecting divorce.
After that accident, he gave up wearing a helmet. He said it was the only way, he could make himself slow down. Work that logic out.
When I was recovering from heavy duty surgery in 2001, he showed up, just back from a race and gave me his winning medal, pictured above.
So there it is, a snapshot of my reckless son, who has unorthodox principles.
I am reblogging this beautiful icy post from My Botanical Garden. I missed the ice storm in my home town, not that I’m sorry but it had its own beauty.
Ice grip is holding Slovenia for the next few days, some schools remain closed, many households without electricity, traffic hindered.Half of the forests are severely damaged.But this sleet apocalypse has its other face of extreme beauty under ice. A rare view to see…
The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about 7,100 times in 2013. If it were a NYC subway train, it would take about 6 trips to carry that many people.
Particularly apt this morning. Re-blogged from Eva Tenter.
I am reblogging this beautiful post about visiting Marrakesh because it recalls my visit there in 1970 with my 8 yr-old son and 9 yr-old daughter. We got adopted by a 20 yr-old Marrakeshee who guided us around and took us to his home, not before my son and then husband went out at night to a central square and got exhilaratingly scared. My daughter says the visit changed her suburban self forever.
It was 11.00pm when we arrived at the Riad (hostel). We expected a warm welcome but instead confused faces presented themselves to us when the door finally opened. Dirty, tired and hungry after a long flight and an even longer wait to get through passport control (nearly an hour), followed by a frantic search for our luggage which had been tossed off the carouse when it shut down, I was desperate for a shower and some sleep. I showed them the print out of our booking but they couldn’t find notification from the booking site. After some discussion the owners told us that it wasn’t a problem as they had a room, which they prepared, and we finally crashed at 3.00am Spanish time (12.30 Morrocan time). When the owner finally tracked down the booking it had been made for October and not September. It appears that using a Spanish booking…
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It is becoming clear that a new kind of pesticide is causing the bees to die off. One beekeeper here in Ontario has lost 30 million and his farm. Urban bees are not exposed to pesticides, especially since cities are banning them and bees may be saved in that way.
Fictional detectives used to be unattached aristocrats or poets whose lives have been touched by tragedy -Rendell’s Adam Dalgleish, George’s Thomas Lynley- or no-nonsense suburban curmudgeons -Rendell’s Wexford. Nowadays they tend to be ex-army often special forces – Connelly’s Harry Bosch, Ian Rankin’s John Rebus, Lee Child’s Jack Reacher, Jo Nesbo’s Harry Hole – and of humble origins – Peter Robinson’s DCI Banks, . They tend to be outsiders and pariahs in their police departments like Rebus in his last appearance, retired and a cold case investigator. Often they are semi-destroyed by what they have seen, struggling with addictions -smoking, booze, hard drugs – and clinically depressed or worse – Henning Mankell’s Kurt Wallender. Some of them are music lovers – Banks, Rebus – and have picturesque cottages as they strive for peace -Banks, Wallender. Generally, they have failed marriages and single daughters who tend to follow their fathers into police work – Bosch, Wallender, Rebus – although Banks also has a musical son. Jack Reacher stands alone, never having married and pathologically unattached to home.
Then there is Kate Atkinson’s Jackson Brodie.
So far, Jackson Brodie has appeared in four of Atkinson’s novels: Case Studies; One Good Turn, A Jolly Murder Mystery; When Will There Be Good News? and Started Early, Took My Dog. He is typical of these latter day literary detectives in that he came from a mining family, quit school at 15 and joined the army. He is divorced, although his daughter is too young yet to join the police. Does he also have a son? He takes solace in music of the female country hurtin’ kind. Initially he longs for a country place in France but lately he’d be happy to find one in Yorkshire. As his surname suggests, his family came from Scotland, and, in some ways, he is what the Scots call a hard man – Rebus, Harry Hole, Jack Reacher, Harry Bosch. Note that I have called Jackson by his first name. Rebus is almost never called John; Reacher is never called Jack, although Harry Hole is often called Harry. Thank goodness. Otherwise, I would have had to keep reminding myself that in Norweigian, it is pronounced Whoolay. Jackson is quick to raise his fists, but he often gets the worst of the fight. One of Jackson’s appeals to this reader is his haplessness.
When it comes to detecting chops – he doesn’t have Wallender’s skill at group think and analysis, nor Rebus’s and Harry Hole’s instinct. He quit the police force before Case Studies begins, so, as a private eye, his inside information, is compromised. Fortunately, he has formed a sort of partnership with DSI Louise Munroe in Edinburgh and he has his own private sources. It has to be said that the best thing about Jackson is his commitment, especially to lost girls. There was such a girl in his youth and that has made him what he is, doggedly persistent in his effort to help others who have lost girls, but sometimes as in Started Early, he doesn’t even know what’s going on. When he meets with success, it seems almost accidental. His sudden acquisition of wealth, a case in point.
When I saw the first television series starring Jason Isaacs as Jackson, I didn’t get the humour. Somebody was trying to kill him in Case Studies, braining him from behind and moving on to arson and finally to vehicular homicide. As it turns out this maniac has a ‘justifiable’ motive, but it is totally baffling to Jackson and me. It is random and absurd, and it was only when I read the books that I began to see that it was also darkly funny. He had just been punched in the face by two different people before he was mugged, for example. One Good Turn begins with a minor rear-end accident in a narrow street in Edinburgh during the Fringe Festival and quickly escalates to attempted murder by baseball bat. The hero of the day stops that with a lucky throw of his laptop, but finds himself inextricably bound to the questionable character he has saved. Passing by, Jackson casually offers the ‘hero’ his card. Both are now on the ‘murderer’s’ to-do list. Mistaken identity adds yet another person to the list.
Okay, I can see that you need to read the books to get the humour.
One of the peculiar things about these books is that in the beginning, Jackson isn’t even mentioned. Whole chapters are given over to narratives about people he has never met, but who will eventually bring their cases to him. Atkinson is very good at bringing characters alive in all their complexity. We get into the minds of Amelia and Julia who lost their little sister when she was 3, into Theo’s mind who lost his 16 year-old daughter on her first day of work at his law firm and into the mind of an obsessive new mother, whose husband meets a grisly end involving an axe. It took me a while to learn to enjoy this method and not rush over them to get to Jackson.
Jackson’s women are more than glad to tell him his faults and to take advantage of him, sometimes with what seem like dire results. Dire to the reader. Not to him. He has bad luck with women and trains. Accidentally, boarding the train bound for Scotland instead of the one for London turns out to be the least of his problems that day. At one time or another, he loses his wallet, his money, his car, but carries on with his original plans, although losing his actual identity does slow him down. Certainly he learns that old truth that no good deed goes unpunished. At least he ends up with a dog, which he takes to see the ruins of Fountains Abbey, as we can see on the cover of Started Early, Took My Dog.
This re-blog from My Botanical Garden gives the flavour of Midsummer Night’s Dream.
At the time of summer solstice goat’s beard was put on windows and doors in Slovenia, people believed the magic of the plant would protect them against evil. Who knows how it worked, but we shouldn’t stop believing in magic, anyway. So here is a piece of magic -A Midsummer Night’s Dream and some pictures of Aruncus diocus, having similar name as midsummer night in Slovene language, which I find magical…
I am reblogging these lovely irises from rona black photography. http://ronablackphotography.wordpress.com